We live in a dangerous world, a world where children get their sex education through word of mouth, or even worse, porn. These women had each taken their version of sex ed in school but couldn’t tell me the different types of orgasms vulva owner’s can experience, in fact they weren’t even sure if they knew what an orgasm felt like. I have to tell you, if you're uncertain if you've ever had one, your probably haven't. People think educating themselves on how to give the best blow job ever or how to be good on top or how to do reverse cowgirl is the key to having better sex. But until you know how to please yourself, no technique you learn about will do it.
Anyway, back to the sex shop in Cabo. So there we were, stood in front of a wall of toys, ranging from anatomically correct dildos (that they all hoped were just novelty size) to vibrators that were the size of a tube of lipstick. I was struck with the realization, how is it that I was the first one to give them to show them this? How had they never had the desire to take their pleasure into their own hands? Why are we leaving it at the mercy of our sexual partners (or worse, porn movies) to teach us what our own body is capable of?
I had always been sex positive, unabashedly ashamed at my interest in sexual activity, pleasure and anatomy. Sadly, at an age where my parents were still using cutesy names for my genitalia, I was sexually abused, a scary part of life that many children are exposed to.
I had always been sex positive, unabashedly ashamed at my interest in sexual activity, pleasure and anatomy. Sadly, at an age where my parents were still using cutesy names for my genitalia, I was sexually abused, a scary part of life that many children are exposed to.
Now, there are many toys that I recommend, so this might have to be in multiple parts. But alas, we have to start somewhere.
So here it is, my sex toy review.
P.S. all the links are clickable, enjoy
P.S. all the links are clickable, enjoy